Showing posts with label self-development. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-development. Show all posts
Tuesday, March 1, 2022
Monday, February 21, 2022
Dating 101 – Part 1: How can you be more successful at asking people out?
In this new series we are going to answer different question regarding how people could date and find a new partner more successfully. In the very first article we will share some general information and focus mostly on meeting new potential partners in person. Keep reading to find out what the most important factors are in such situations!
Many people ask where they should go to meet a new potential partner or how they could ask other singles out successfully if they get few matches in dating apps based on only their looks. Let’s examine what we should consider and do in this case.
1. The laws of attraction
Attraction is totally subjective, as everybody considers different things beautiful. However, a study about couples where one of the parties was generally considered better-looking (you can learn more here if you speak Hungarian), concluded that they developed feelings towards their partner after getting to know them better. Therefore these people used their personality, intelligence, knowledge and other interpersonal skills to impress, which everybody can take advantage of and improve. You can even combine effort with pleasure and choose a hobby that requires spending time with other people or attend self-development workshops regularly where you can get to know yourself and others better as well.
2. Good things take time
If you choose this way, keep in mind that reaching your goal may take longer than swiping right on a dating app. On the other hand, if you are looking for a long-term relationship, it is a huge advantage if your potential new partner already knows a few things about you and may have even seen your reaction in different situations before you “officially” decide to build something together to see how compatible you may be with each other. This often happens if you meet your partner at work for example, which happens quite often according to statistics… because in this case some circumstances might be ideal, which we will describe in the next point in more detail.
3. Take it easy
Most relationships apparently begin randomly. When we go to work and school or simply spend time with our friends, we may be open to meeting new people but our main focus is not on that. While some people stay friends or colleagues for years before deciding to go on a date (so they can do what was written in point 1 and decide that their personalities may be compatible in the long-term), in some other situations we tend to get nervous or too pushy from the very beginning as we already enter them with certain expectations.
We could all share what our fears and worries are as a single person, but these should not determine who we are. What a potential new partner wants to know is who we really are, what goals we have related to the other areas of our lives, which ones we have achieved, and how we could contribute to theirs as a positive person. Therefore, whatever platform or way you choose to meet new people, it is important to stay calm, take it easy and just be yourself.
Successful dating checklist
- Besides your appearance work on your inner self too. Be someone who feels good in their skin and loves what they do so you always have something to talk about.
- Go out often to meet new people or spend time with those with whom you feel good. Be open to meeting new people and to see who could be a potential compatible partner for you.
- Give yourself enough time to do so (it doesn’t need to be long) and take the process easy so your potential partner can get to know the real you.
If you found this article useful, please share it with your single friends along with the link of our group, which you can find below! Like our Facebook page so you can always see what is new! If you have any questions or suggestions, contact us!
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
Tuesday, February 8, 2022
Jay Shetty: Under pressure as a single person?
Valntine’s Day is coming! (I know, this is a singles’ group…) That’s why I’m sharing a message for you that everybody should hear from Jay Shetty (the video is available in English with Hungarian subtitles):
If you found this article useful, please share it with your single friends along with the link of our group, which you can find below! Like our Facebook page so you can always see what is new! If you have any questions or suggestions, contact us!
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
Monday, January 24, 2022
Should you change for your partner? π♀️
If so, in what way? Jay Shetty will help us find that out! (The wideo is available in English with English and Hungarian subtitles).
If you found this article useful, please share it with your single friends along with the link of our group, which you can find below! Like our Facebook page so you can always see what is new! If you have any questions or suggestions, contact us!
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
Thursday, January 13, 2022
How to change your life in 1 year? π
How to make your new year resolutions cause permanent changes? Let Better Ideas give you some tips on that! (The video is available in English with Hungarian subtitles.
If you found this article useful, please share it with your single friends along with the link of our group, which you can find below! Like our Facebook page so you can always see what is new! If you have any questions or suggestions, contact us!
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
Wednesday, January 5, 2022
Learn more about yourself and relationships: Free courses from the comfort of your home
Which skill of yours will you improve this year? Here is a list of free courses that may help you decide!
It is never too late to learn something new, and the beginning of another year is one of the best times to dedicate ourselves to this goal. Whether you are single and looking for a partner or already in a relationship, both situations require you to constantly develop your interpersonal skills. Fortunately this is possible to do in several ways, so even if you cannot attend such workshops or invest into this financially at the moment, we have a solution for you! We have collected several online courses in 3 main categories that you can go through at your own pace in the comfort of your own home even without a paid subscription.
1. Understanding yourself and relationships
How To Choose Your Life Partner and Minimize
Breakups
If you are new here and conscious dating is a
new concept for you, you can read about it briefly here in our previous post.
But if you want to understand the basics in more detail, it is worth going
through this free course.
Beautiful You - Love Who You Are
If you want your relationship to work well, it
is important to get to know and love yourself first. This course gives you a
few simple tips over 5 days to help you rediscover your values and improve your
self-esteem.
https://www.udemy.com/course/beautiful-you-love-who-you-are/
The Arts and Science of Relationships:
Understanding Human Needs
This course gives you a general overview on the
basics of sociopsychology. It also helps you understand how people can be
different on various levels and how they can connect successfully despite these
in a relationship.
https://www.coursera.org/learn/human-needs
2. Communication
Negotiation - Understanding Personality Types
This course focuses on how to deal with people
of different basic personality types in business life. However, being good at
reading people is an essential skill when it comes to dating and finding
someone you are compatible with as well!
Master Body Language Blueprint
Research has shown that body language is often
more important than the words we choose to say tot he other person. Therefore
if you would like to make a credible and positive impression, it is worth
looking at these simple tips.
https://www.udemy.com/course/body-language-full-course/learn/lecture/18758444#overview
Improve Communication Results & Become
Effective Listener
Effective communication, which also requires
you to be a good listener amogst all, is the key to any relationship. By taking
this free curse you can learn different principles and strategies that may help
you get closer to mastering you communication skills.
3. Conflict resolution
Shiny Happy Couples: How to Detoxify Your
Relationship
Instead of focusing on only needs, the Melfox
Method identifies other factors behind conflicts in relationships. Based on
this it offers some stragies that you can learn to apply.
Getting through a Difficult Divorce or Break Up
Here is a short summary of what you should do
if you are going through a breakup. This course is recommended especially for
those who have not had a serious relationship yet or do not have a lot of
experience in dating. For everyone else who is familiar with this situation it
is basically a reminder or checklist on what to do to get over it quickly and
effectively.
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
www.facebook.com/groups/consciousdatinginbudapest/
consciousdatinginbudapest@gmail.com
Sunday, January 2, 2022
Topic of the month: New Year, New You π♀️
From now on at the beginning of every month we will publish the list of upcoming blog posts. Our first topic is "New Year, New You", related to which the following content will become available:
6th January: Learn more about yourself and relationships: Free courses from the comfort of your home
13th January: How to change your life in a year
20th January: Breaking up at New Year: How to set new goals and build the new you
27th January: Change for yourself, not others
If you have any questions or suggestions, feel free to contact us in the new year too at the same links below!
The Conscious dating in Budapest team
https://www.facebook.com/consciousdatinginbudapest
www.facebook.com/groups/consciousdatinginbudapest/
consciousdatinginbudapest@gmail.com
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